The first wedding anniversary is known as the "cotton wedding" (in Ukraine, the chintz wedding). Cotton is a light and simple fabric, just like a marriage after its first year: still delicate and tender, with the couple only learning to live together. Traditionally, cotton gifts are given — bedding, towels or a tablecloth. Below are first anniversary wishes for a wife, a husband, friends and children, plus poems and flower ideas.
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Short first anniversary wishes
- Happy first anniversary! May the cotton of your love grow as strong as silk and gold over the years.
- One year together is just the first page of a great story. Happiness to you, dear ones!
- Happy cotton anniversary! Tenderness, patience and many more happy anniversaries.
- May every year of your marriage be warmer than the one before.
For a wife or husband
- My love, a year ago you said "yes" to me, and since then every day has been a celebration. Thank you for being my wife.
- Darling, our first year has been the happiest of my life. May fifty more like it lie ahead!
- We have learned to share the blanket, our plans and our dreams. Happy first anniversary, my person!
For friends and children
- Friends, happy first anniversary! We remember your wedding as if it were yesterday. May your love only grow stronger.
- Our daughter and son-in-law, you are a wonderful couple. We wish you warmth, comfort and a growing family.
- Our son and daughter-in-law, a year ago we cried with joy at your wedding. Be happy always!
In your own words
- The first year of marriage is about finding a shared rhythm: who makes the coffee, who picks the film, how to make up after a fight. You did brilliantly! May the lessons of this year become the foundation for a long and happy life.
- May your cotton tenderness turn over the years into a strong fabric that no hardship can tear.
Funny wishes
- Congratulations! You have lasted a year — the warranty period is officially over. From now on it is lifetime service with love!
- A year together and you still don't argue about who takes out the rubbish? Then you are the perfect couple!
First anniversary poems
The first year has passed, so soft and so tender,
Like morning in spring or a garden in bloom,
May love keep its warmth and its gentle splendour
And happiness always light up your room.
The cotton is thin, but its thread is strong,
Like feelings so simple, sincere and true,
May every new year bring a joyful song
And flowers and smiles for the two of you.
Flowers for a first anniversary
On the first anniversary a husband usually gives his wife a gentle bouquet — pink or cream roses, a box arrangement or the same flowers she carried in her wedding bouquet. Friends and parents can add a small pastel bouquet to a cotton gift.

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See flowers in a box and bridal bouquets.

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FAQ
Why is the first anniversary called the cotton wedding?
Cotton is a simple, light fabric, like a marriage after its first year: still delicate but already shared.
What can I give for a first anniversary?
Cotton items such as bedding, towels or a tablecloth, plus flowers and sweets.
What comes after the cotton anniversary?
The second is paper, the third is leather and the fifth is wood.
25 years together: silver wedding anniversary wishes.
Five years after the cotton anniversary comes the wooden anniversary.
Ahead of the newlyweds lie the wooden, tin and crystal anniversaries.
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