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Wedding Anniversaries by Year: Names, Gifts and Flowers

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Every wedding anniversary has its own name in Ukrainian tradition — from calico to crown. The name hints at the gift: the longer the marriage, the stronger and more precious the anniversary "material". Here are the anniversary names by year, gift and flower ideas for each date and tips for congratulating a couple or your parents. Ideas for other people and occasions are in our guide what to give: gift ideas. For unmarried couples, see relationship anniversary gifts. Ideas from children are in anniversary gifts for parents.

Anniversary bouquets can be found among our red roses and large rose bouquets, and for parents a flower basket.

Flowers and gifts for a wedding anniversary
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Anniversary names by year

The names come from folk tradition and vary slightly between sources and countries. Below is the version most common in Ukraine:

Wedding anniversary names (Slavic tradition)1–5 years1 — calico (cotton)2 — paper3 — leather4 — linen5 — wood6–10 years6 — cast iron7 — copper8 — tin9 — faience (daisy)10 — rose (tin)11–15 years11 — steel12 — nickel13 — lace14 — agate15 — crystal20–35 years20 — porcelain25 — silver30 — pearl35 — linen (coral)40–50 years40 — ruby45 — sapphire50 — golden55–75 years55 — emerald60 — diamond65 — iron75 — crown
Wedding anniversaries: names from 1 to 75 years

The English-language list differs: for example, the first anniversary is paper and the second is cotton. For cotton in wedding floristry, see our vintage wedding guide.

Anniversary bouquet
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Rarer and longest anniversaries: 16 to 100 years

Besides the “main” dates, folk lists have a name for almost every year. They vary between sources, so here are the most common versions:

YearNameGift idea
16topaztopaz jewellery
19garnetgarnet jewellery, red wine
21opalopal, mother-of-pearl items
22bronzea bronze figurine or candle holders
23berylberyl or aquamarine jewellery
24satinsatin linen, bedding, pyjamas
26jadejade jewellery, massage stones
37muslinlight fabrics, scarves, curtains
70“blessed” (platinum)a family celebration, a family history book
80oakwooden items, an oak sapling
90granitesymbolic gifts, a family portrait
100“red”greetings from the whole family

Rarer and longest anniversaries: 16 to 100 years
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The first anniversaries: gift ideas

  • 1 year, calico — textiles: bedding, throws, a tablecloth; a bouquet with cotton.
  • 2 years, paper — books, a photo album, concert tickets, cards; a bouquet in kraft paper.
  • 3 years, leather — a wallet, belt or passport cover.
  • 4 years, linen — linen napkins, clothing; a bouquet wrapped in linen.
  • 5 years, wood — a wooden box, board, furniture or a tree sapling for the garden.

Gifts for the first anniversaries
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Anniversary flowers

Flowers suit any anniversary, and some dates have them in the name: 9 years is the daisy anniversary, 10 years is the rose anniversary (roses are given), 13 years is lily-of-the-valley or lace. The number of flowers often matches the years of marriage: 25 roses for silver, 50 for golden (in large bouquets of 15+ stems, odd or even no longer matters). For milestone anniversaries, arrangements in a basket or box are practical for the festive table.

Roses for a wedding anniversary
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Gifts for the in-between anniversaries

  • 6 years, cast iron — a cast-iron pan or pot, candle holders, a dinner cooked together.
  • 7 years, copper — a copper coffee pot, a copper bracelet or pendant, a cookware set.
  • 8 years, tin — a pretty tin of tea or biscuits, metal photo frames, a decorative tray.
  • 11 years, steel — a knife set, a steel watch, home tools.
  • 12 years, nickel — cutlery, a nickel-plated accessory, a kitchen refresh.
  • 13 years, lace (lily of the valley) — a lace tablecloth, linen, a bouquet of lily of the valley or white flowers.
  • 14 years, agate — agate jewellery, a stone box.
  • 18 years, turquoise — turquoise jewellery, a seaside trip.

Gifts for the in-between anniversaries
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How to celebrate a wedding anniversary

Couples often mark early anniversaries just the two of them: dinner at the restaurant where they held the wedding, a weekend away, watching the wedding video. Milestones — 10, 25, 50 years — are celebrated with family and friends, sometimes with a vow renewal. A lovely tradition is a joint photo on the same day every year, and flowers matching the number of years together.

Milestone anniversaries

  • 10 years, rose — red or pink roses, jewellery, a romantic dinner.
  • 15 years, crystal — a crystal vase with flowers, glasses.
  • 20 years, porcelain — a tea set, porcelain figurines.
  • 25 years, silver — silver jewellery and cutlery; white and cream flowers with silvery foliage (eucalyptus, cineraria).
  • 30 years, pearl — pearl jewellery, a bouquet in white and pearly tones.
  • 40 years, ruby — ruby-red roses, ruby jewellery.
  • 50 years, golden — gold jewellery, yellow and cream roses, a family celebration with children and grandchildren.

Silver anniversary bouquet
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Anniversary gift
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Short anniversary wishes

  • “Another year together — another page of your story. May the next ones be just as warm!”
  • “Happy anniversary! May your love grow stronger every year, just like the material your anniversary is named after.”
  • “Thank you for showing us what a real family looks like. Wishing you happiness, health and many shared dreams!”
  • “Happy anniversary, dear ones! May your home always smell of flowers and your hearts stay tender.”

Add a bouquet to the card — for milestone dates people often give as many flowers as the years together.

How to congratulate your parents

  • Put together a family photo album or a video of greetings from relatives.
  • Order flowers and a cake for delivery if you live in another city.
  • Book dinner at the restaurant where they celebrated their wedding, or a trip.
  • For milestone dates, a party with guests and a photo shoot.

Congratulating parents on their anniversary
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Anniversary arrangement
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FAQ

What comes after the 5th anniversary?

6 — cast iron, 7 — copper, 8 — tin, 9 — faience (daisy), 10 — rose (tin).

How many roses for an anniversary?

Often one per year of marriage; small bouquets traditionally use an odd number.

Which anniversary is silver?

The 25th. The 50th is golden and the 60th is diamond.

What is the 35th anniversary called?

Most often linen, sometimes coral.

What comes after the golden anniversary?

After 50 come emerald (55), diamond (60), iron (65), “blessed” (70), crown (75) and oak (80).

Author: Maria Svitlovir

Graduated from Taras Shevchenko National University of Kyiv, Institute of Biology and Medicine (2001). BSc in Biology, MSc in Horticulture. Writes about plants, works at a garden centre selecting and repotting plants, and contributes to plant reference guides.