A wedding is one of the most tradition-rich celebrations. In some countries the couple are bound with a ribbon, in others china is smashed for luck, and elsewhere the couple are showered with money on the dance floor. Here are the most interesting wedding customs from around the world, from Ukraine to Mexico and Nigeria, and the role flowers play in them.
Wedding flowers are in our bridal bouquets and flowers for newlyweds sections.
A Ukrainian wedding begins with matchmaking; a refusal was once signalled by handing the matchmakers a pumpkin (harbuz). During the church ceremony the couple stand on an embroidered rushnyk, and the korovai remains the main bread of the celebration. The bride traditionally wore a wreath with periwinkle, a symbol of eternal love. More in "Ukrainian wedding traditions".
The bride wears "something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue", after a Victorian rhyme. The bouquet and garter toss are popular, and before the wedding friends throw a bridal shower with gifts.
Instead of a tiered cake a croquembouche, a tower of caramel-coated profiteroles, is often served, and guests receive dragées, sugared almonds. The couple drink from a two-handled wedding cup.
During the Orthodox ceremony stefana crowns joined by a ribbon are placed on the couple's heads as a symbol of unity. Guests receive sugared almonds, and at the celebration there is dancing and sometimes traditional plate smashing, though flower petals are increasingly thrown instead.
The groom gives the bride 13 coins, the arras, symbolising his care for the family. In some regions friends cut the groom's tie into pieces and "sell" them to guests to raise money for the couple.
On the eve of the wedding comes the mehndi, when the bride's hands and feet are decorated with henna. The couple exchange flower garlands, and in Pakistan and India the bride's sisters playfully hide the groom's shoes and demand a ransom for them.
During the ceremony el lazo, a double loop of cord or rosary beads, is placed around the couple's shoulders as a symbol of their union. As in Spain, the groom gives the bride 13 coins.
At Yoruba weddings guests "spray" the dancing couple with banknotes, and relatives and friends wear outfits made from matching fabric, known as aso ebi.
Flowers feature in almost every tradition: wreaths in Ukraine, garlands in India, bridal bouquets in the West. We tell the story of the bridal bouquet in "History of the bridal bouquet", and share floral decor ideas in "Wedding floral decor".
It is an English wedding custom: for luck, the bride wears something old, something new, something borrowed and something blue.
According to the Polterabend tradition, the broken pieces bring the couple good luck.
A pre-wedding ceremony in India and Pakistan at which the bride's hands are decorated with henna.