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Carnations: History, Meaning and Who to Give Them To

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For many people carnations are still associated with official holidays and memorial ceremonies. But this flower has a rich history: Leonardo da Vinci painted it, Oscar Wilde wore it in his buttonhole, and today carnations are back in fashion with florists and brides. Here is what carnations mean and who to give them to. More flowers with photos, names and meanings are in our guide to types of flowers. This is a birth month flower; see January flowers.

A bouquet of carnations
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The history of the carnation

The carnation's botanical name, Dianthus, comes from the Greek dios (of Zeus) and anthos (flower) — "the divine flower". Garden carnations have been grown for more than two thousand years.

In Leonardo da Vinci's "Madonna of the Carnation", the Virgin holds a red carnation, which in Christian symbolism is linked to love and Christ's Passion. In 15th- and 16th-century Flemish and German portraits, a carnation in the sitter's hand signalled an engagement, earning it the name "flower of betrothal".

Carnations in painting
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In the 19th century, the era of the "language of flowers", each carnation colour gained its own meaning. Buttonholes became fashionable too: gentlemen wore a carnation in their lapel, and Oscar Wilde and his circle famously sported dyed green carnations. In 1908 Anna Jarvis made the white carnation the symbol of Mother's Day in the USA, and in 1974 red carnations gave their name to Portugal's bloodless Carnation Revolution.

The language of carnations by colourPinkA mother’s love"I will neverforget you"WhitePure love,innocenceGood luckRedAdmiration,deep affectionYellowIn the 19th century,disappointmentToday, joyStripedIn the languageof flowers, refusalGreenAn aesthete’s badgeafter Oscar WildeAn unusual accent
What carnations of different colours mean.

Carnation meanings by colour

  • Red — admiration, respect and deep love. In Ukraine they are also traditionally laid at memorials, so romantic bouquets more often use burgundy or bicolour varieties.
  • Pink — gratitude and a mother’s love; a Mother’s Day classic.
  • White — purity, sincerity and good luck; lovely in wedding and soft bouquets.
  • Yellow — joy and friendship with a light, cheerful mood.
  • Purple and lilac — originality and respect for creative people.
  • Green — freshness and novelty; a fashionable accent in modern arrangements.
  • Bicolour with picotee edges — playfulness and affection.

Carnation meanings by colour
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Carnation meanings by colour
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Types of carnations and pinks

  • Florist’s (Dutch) carnation — large single blooms on long stems; the one most often sold as a cut flower.
  • Spray carnation — 5–10 smaller flowers per stem; light and ideal for mixed bouquets.
  • Sweet William — a biennial with dense heads of small, often eyed flowers, blooming in June–July.
  • Chabaud carnation — a florist’s carnation group with fragrant double flowers, grown from seed as an annual and blooming from July until frost.
  • Maiden pink — a low, ground-covering perennial with small pink flowers for rock gardens and edges.
  • Cottage and China pinks — compact garden species with fragrant or patterned flowers.

Types of carnations and pinks
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Types of carnations and pinks
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Who to give carnations to, and when

  • Your mother. Pink carnations symbolise a mother's love — a lovely choice for her birthday or Mother's Day.
  • A man. A restrained single-variety carnation bouquet suits a colleague, a boss or a birthday celebrant.
  • Your partner. Lush modern varieties, including soft-coloured spray carnations, look romantic and not at all "official".
  • In remembrance. Red and white carnations are traditionally used in funeral arrangements as a mark of respect.

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Carnations in bridal bouquets

Florists increasingly use carnations in wedding bouquets. Their ruffled double flowers add volume and texture, pastel shades create a soft look and bright ones a bold contrast. Carnations pair well with roses, lisianthus, gypsophila and eucalyptus and are more affordable than many premium flowers.

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What to pair carnations with

Carnations go with almost any flower and add texture with their frilled petals. Soft pairings: roses, lisianthus and gypsophila in pastels; modern ones: button chrysanthemums, eucalyptus and dried flowers; festive ones: burgundy carnations with white roses and fir in winter. Spray carnations fill gaps between larger blooms, while single-stem carnations massed in one colour make a dome arrangement that looks chic and expensive.

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Interesting facts about carnations

  • The red carnation became the symbol of Portugal’s peaceful 1974 Carnation Revolution, when soldiers put flowers in their rifle barrels.
  • The white carnation is the traditional Mother’s Day flower in the US, associated with the holiday’s founder Anna Jarvis.
  • Clove, the spice, is the dried flower bud of a tropical tree, not Dianthus; only the name is shared because of the similar scent.
  • Carnations are among the longest-lasting cut flowers, staying fresh for up to three weeks somewhere cool.

Why carnations last so long

Carnations are among the longest-lasting cut flowers: with proper care a bouquet lasts 2–3 weeks. Recut the stems between the nodes, change the water every 2–3 days and keep the bouquet away from fruit — carnations are sensitive to ethylene.

Carnations in a vase
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Growing carnations in the garden

All carnations love sun and light, free-draining soil without standing water, as the crown rots quickly in damp spots. Chabaud carnations are sown indoors in January–February because they take 5–6 months to flower; Sweet William is sown outdoors in summer and blooms the following year. Perennial types are propagated by division and cuttings. Deadhead after flowering, and in winter lightly cover perennial pinks with conifer branches to protect them from spring sun and rot.

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FAQ

Can you give carnations to a girlfriend?

Of course. Modern varieties — pastel, bicoloured or spray — look delicate and romantic.

How long do carnations last in a vase?

Usually 2–3 weeks — longer than most cut flowers.

What do red carnations mean?

Admiration, respect and deep love. Because red carnations are traditionally laid at memorials in Ukraine, romantic bouquets often use burgundy or bicolour ones instead.

How is Sweet William different from the florist’s carnation?

Sweet William is a biennial with dense heads of small flowers for borders; the florist’s carnation has large single blooms on long stems, mainly for cutting.

Who can you give carnations to?

Mothers and grandmothers (pink), colleagues and teachers (white, yellow), a partner (burgundy and bicolour) and men too — carnations are understated and long-lasting.

How is a single-stem carnation different from a spray carnation?

A single-stem carnation has one large bloom on a long stem; a spray carnation has 5–10 smaller blooms on a branched stem. Sprays suit mixed bouquets, while single stems suit mono bouquets and wedding work.

How do I care for a carnation bouquet?

Cut the stems at an angle between nodes, remove leaves from the water, change it every 2–3 days and keep the bouquet away from fruit, radiators and direct sun — carnations then last up to three weeks.

Can carnations be given at a wedding?

Yes. White, cream and blush double carnations are increasingly used in bridal bouquets and buttonholes: they look delicate and stay fresh all day.

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Author: Maria Svitlovir

Graduated from Taras Shevchenko National University of Kyiv, Institute of Biology and Medicine (2001). BSc in Biology, MSc in Horticulture. Writes about plants, works at a garden centre selecting and repotting plants, and contributes to plant reference guides.